We’ve been told that “rape culture” isn’t real. Especially in developed, first-world countries – we don’t have a problem with rape culture. Women are simply too sensitive, they have no sense of humor, they take everything too seriously. There is entitlement breeding here - ownership - a level of claim to women's bodies in every segment of their existence that we cannot ignore.
Women speaking out against abuse is making many people uncomfortable. And it's time we start asking why. “When they throw around terms like ‘cancel culture’ to silence me instead of reckoning with the reasons I might find certain actions or jokes dehumanizing, I’d led to one conclusion: they’d prefer I was powerless against my own oppression.”–Sarah Hagi, TIME, November 2019
This is not the time to laugh and keep scrolling when you see these comments, this is the time to say enough. Stand up for yourself and for others, have a backbone and don’t accept this behaviour. Join the YYLAM community and the battle against online bulling, sexism and misogyny. If you’re one of the ones lurking behind your screen, filled with poisonous words, maybe remember what I’m sure your mother taught you, which was if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say it. Also, maybe make your own fucking sandwich.
A few months ago, a follower of our Instagram account sent the following message about a situation that had happened to her at a local vitamin store:
“Legit had the guy at my local GNC that I frequented look up my number though my membership and text me to show his interest.”
This comment was posted to our stories, and almost instantly the submissions of similar situations flooded our inbox for the next week. We posted over 400 stories of professional harassment to our account, all of which can still be viewed by looking at our “story highlights” on our page.
Women are actively discouraged from participating in strength and power sports in order to maintain a hierarchy in which men are considered physically stronger which allows for the continued justification of society to benefit men over women. Sexist microaggressions might be attempted to be framed as “well-meaning” or “chivalrous." However, all sexist microaggressions are meant to stop or deter women from continuing to participate in the activity or behavior. In the case of women’s athletics, sexist microaggressions are used to stop women from participating, performing, or competing in sports overall, but especially “masculine” sports.